Rooted Again
On February 22, 2023 by Jay McCormickREGARDLESS OF THE context, the spirit of this quote runs deep for us. After several years of travel that took us from Key West, Florida, to Fairbanks, Alaska, and from the Cliffs of Moher to the jungles of Costa Rica, we decided to plant roots again. My wife, Reim, and I have struggled with this decision since the day we parked our rolling house in the driveway of our new homestead in Alaska.
Two Year Nomadiversary – What now?
On July 1, 2019 by Jay McCormickTwo years! It’s been two years since we traded in our sticks and bricks for our rolling house of adventure. We’ve towed our house over 21,000 miles, stayed at least one night in 98 places (RV parks, state parks, national forests, boondocking sites), visited 38 states (45 overall since we started RVing 4 years ago)
The Economics of Full-time RV Living
On June 6, 2018 by Jay McCormick“I’ve learned that making a ‘living’ is not the same thing as ‘making a life’.” – Maya Angelou
I agree with Maya, but since we have yet to win the lottery and we don’t have a rich aunt that left us millions, I still have to generate an income. Beyond the basic needs (clothing, food, shelter) I have two kids that may want to go to college, experiences to be had, and other needs (and wants) to fund.
I’ll write about work/life balance and being a “digital nomad” in a future post.
“Do you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth?” – Detective Carter, Rush Hour
Our Great Escape
On July 20, 2017 by Jay McCormickNormal we are not…
“I want to make my life less ordinary.” – David Miller, AWOL on the Appalachian Trail
“It’s not normal”. This was a statement made to my wife by a skeptical family member while Reim was discussing our plans to sell our house and live in an RV fulltime for a few years (or longer). “It’s not normal”. When Reim told me this my response was “well, that’s the point isn’t it?” We laughed. “Yep”.
How we got here…
“You’re so worked up about work you never play with us or tickle us anymore.” – Ireland McCormick, 2014
I don’t think it’s necessary to rehash the loathing I have for the two years of hell when I decided to get a real job. Ireland’s quote above summarizes it perfectly and was a significant trigger to our quest for a less ordinary life. So, I will move on to why we decided to get the hell out of Dodge (or Houston).
Our Winter RVing Adventure
On March 21, 2017 by Jay McCormickFolks…there are some affiliate links in this post. I will only provide affiliate links to products I’ve used and that I’m happy with. In this post I’ll discuss what we did to survive a month of winter RVing in Park City, Utah. Winter RVing can be a lot of fun with proper planning and a
How We Planned A 3 Month RV Adventure
On April 18, 2016 by Jay McCormickWe Have To Be Where When? There are 3 “hard” dates that we had to consider when planning our 3 month Epic Trip 2016. First, the final day of our kids’ homeschool academy is May 19th. The second date, June 13th, is the start of our KOA workamper assignment. The final date, August 23rd, marks the start
Epic Trip 2016 – The Plan
On March 17, 2016 by Jay McCormickThe planning phase for Epic Trip 2016 is essentially complete. There could be a tweak here and there, but the unknown is what makes it exciting. Departing late May and returning late August and includes our first work kamper adventure at Devils Tower KOA (excited about this!!!). We’ll visit 14 states including 8 states we haven’t
Bunkhouse Privacy Curtains
On March 16, 2016 by Jay McCormickSince our kids continually tell us that they are “almost teenagers” (they’re 11 and 9) we decided to do them a huge favor and implement some privacy for each of their respective areas in the bunkhouse. Our true motivation for doing this mod was to cover and control the perpetual “pre-teen” chaos and clutter. Plus,
Go-Day
On March 7, 2016 by Jay McCormickI’m sitting on my patio in suburbia drinking a yuppie beer looking at a starless sky and listening to sirens nearby and asking myself why the hell do we do this. We’ve been doing a lot of this kind of thinking lately (for the past couple of years actually). We escaped the cookie cutter life
Epic Trip 2015 – Part 1
On January 9, 2016 by Jay McCormickIn this galaxy and not very long ago…this is how this adventure all started…
Note: The time frame for the the Epic Trip 2015 is late April to early June 2015.
I’m sitting less than twenty feet from the river that is energetically snaking its way through this old mining town. A couple of mule deer are grazing in a yard across the river. The cool breeze is pushing the clouds over the mountain peaks that surround the town. I need to check on the kids. I think they’re at the playground. They’ve been gone for a while. They’ll be okay. It can wait. The morning horse ride was a success. My wife, a city girl, loved it. The kids didn’t want to get off their horses. I pick up my phone. I should check my e-mail. I put the phone back down. It can wait. I catch a scent of our afternoon fishing adventure. I need to take a shower. It can wait. In fact, it all can wait. With one exception. The imminent return to the rat race of city life. I don’t want to go back. My wife doesn’t want to go back. The kids love it here…as well as the eleven previous stops we’ve made on our “Epic RV Trip”.
This adventure, unknowingly, started in late 2013 when we began tent camping at Huntsville (TX) State Park with our kids and they loved it. When camping they wanted to be outside exploring the world on their legs, bikes and scooters. The electronic life of iPads, Xbox, and TV was a distant memory. It was really a small miracle. Within minutes of setting up camp a friendly and happy mob of kids had formed and their excitement was felt throughout the park. A few months later we purchased a pop-up camper taking our camping experience to the next level.
In early 2014, my wife and I made the relatively easy decision to start home schooling our two children. I know that you are probably thinking we are some weird religious zealots living on a farm. I can assure you that we are as normal as normal can be. Too normal, which was part of the problem. There was nothing sinister that lead us to this decision, we simply felt, all things considered, this was a better fit for our lifestyle. At the same time we made the homeschooling decision, I was leading a global IT department for a high growth company. I was responsible for over 50 people on my team and several thousand customers (end users) that were seemingly never happy. The hundreds of e-mails and dozens of phone calls a day were maddening. In the previous two years my stress level went through the roof and I had gone from a finely tuned, multiple Ironman triathlon finisher to an overweight, forty-three year old borderline couch potato. As we prepared for this homeschooling journey we discussed me leaving the corporate world and going back to my consulting life (I had a successfully consulting business before going to work for one of my clients in 2011, but that is a story for another day). We wanted some balance in our lives and my wife and I both new that my job was ruining me. I wasn’t the husband, father, or man that I wanted to be. But before I dove headfirst back into the consulting business we had other plans. As we continued to plan for our homeschooling adventure we both felt that this was only part of what we needed to do. Remember that I said we were normal. We were leading a normal life. An ordinary life. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but we needed to do something epic. Like Major Tom stepping through the door. One morning, over a cup of coffee, we had an epiphany. How about a month long RV trip? It was a done deal. We had the courage of our convictions and once we have a goal we don’t stop. We were doing this! A long decompression from the daily grind for my wife and me and a long social studies trip for all of us.